double entry of the day!

was watching this repeat korean drama on tv and this random guy said something like this:

"there are a few things one cannot hide -

1. cough
2. (something i can't remember, but not important)
3. your love for the other
4. loneliness"

then he continued,

"yes, there are many who got married because of mutual true love. however, there are also many others who got married because of loneliness..."

omg.. how apt.

close your eyes and ask yourself.

are you (together/yearning for the other half) because of love? or loneliness?

we can't hide such things. but we choose to musk it deliberately.

:)

became an angel for a visually impaired po po.. i held her hand, crossed the road, asked passer-bys for directions to her block (i dont live in the vicinity), warned her of any "obstacles" along the way, and finally led her to her block.. my effort is small i know, but it really makes my day.

:)

was doing proj with 2 friends.. they are amazing. they are on good terms, go out together, have the same ring (www.singleringen.com), have the same ringtone, have the same taste.. but they are NOT together.

this ring actually contains a semicircle within the band. when 2 rings come together, it forms a circle. perfect right? they both have the ring, so it forms a circle, aka a match!

was telling them no one will believe they are not together.. but they just shove it off altogether. what's wrong eh!?

is my perception of "love" and the likes absurdly wrong?

everything about love*

im a skeptic about this. i don't understand how couples can be couples for a long time. other than the mundane things like watching a movie, dinner, ... what else can you do? ok, you can try the zoo (hotspot among my jc kakis).. but ya? anymore?

pohpoh told me, it's the company that matters. but i feel that once the optimal level of activity between a couple is achieved, happiness drops.. like what is shown in the diagram below:

note: graph is solely based on my personal view. not supported with any scientific proof. do not sue me whatsoever.

i don't know about you, but i think valentine's day is so commercialised. so are you telling me you love your other half a bit more on the 14th feb, and when the clock strikes 12 again, things are back to normal? i keyed orders for v day flowers and gifts, i can't help but to wonder, do they really mean it? or is this an outlet to flaunt your wealth? perhaps the people in the office are comparing whose bouquet is bigger.. so where is the spirit of love?

i don't need someone to give empty promises.

but i do wish for someone who cares for me. someone who is willing to lend me his shoulders when i need to nap in the train and fend off all weird uncles. someone who is willing to see that i can be vulnerable at times. someone who is willing to hear me whine. someone who is willing to hear my repeated grumbles about school. someone who is intelligent and give me witty advices. someone who will not attempt to cross my buffer zone until im willing to reduce it. someone who can tolerate my temperaments.. someone who will towel my hair dry.

he will show me how nonsensical my graph is :)

then i realise.. an elder brother will do the job. haha.

until that someone comes along, im currently happy to have no strings attached.